What is a commonly used cliche that is often considered overrated?

 Clichés are by nature overused phrases, so any that come to mind will likely fit the bill! Here are a few commonly used cliches that are often considered overrated:

  

Motivational:

• "Follow your dreams!" While chasing dreams is great, it's often accompanied by the need for planning, hard work, and adapting to reality.
• "Everything happens for a reason." This can feel dismissive of difficult experiences and can limit our agency in understanding and shaping our lives.
• "Just be yourself!" While embracing your authenticity is important, knowing how to navigate social situations and adapt to different contexts is also crucial.

Romantic:

• "Love at first sight." While initial attraction is exciting, real, lasting love often requires building trust and intimacy over time.
• "Opposites attract." While differences can be interesting, successful relationships often require shared values and common ground.
• "Soulmates." The idea of a perfectly suited, destined partner can put unrealistic pressure on relationships and neglect the role of effort and communication.

General:

• "Time flies when you're having fun." This often feels true when things are pleasant, but can also be dismissive of challenging or painful experiences.
• "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger." While overcoming challenges can build resilience, this shouldn't downplay the impact of difficult experiences or the need for support.
• "Everything in moderation." While balance is important, this can sometimes feel like a bland approach to life, neglecting the value of experiencing new things and taking risks.

Ultimately, whether a cliche resonates with you or feels overrated depends on your personal perspective and experiences. The key is to be aware of these overused phrases and consider whether they truly reflect your own values and beliefs.

Do you have any specific cliches you find particularly overrated? I'd love to hear your thoughts!