Do you lose your motivation to achieve your goals if you tell people?

 Whether telling people about your goals affects your motivation is a complex question, and the answer depends on several factors:

Positive effects:

• Accountability: Sharing your goals with trusted individuals can create a sense of accountability, motivating you to stick to your commitments because you feel others are watching.
• Support and encouragement: Sharing your goals with supportive friends, family, or mentors can provide encouragement and positive reinforcement, boosting your motivation.
• Collaboration and brainstorming: Discussing your goals with others can lead to valuable feedback, different perspectives, and collaborative solutions, improving your approach and increasing your confidence.

Negative effects:

• Social pressure: Feeling pressured to succeed in front of others can cause anxiety and fear of failure, potentially hindering your motivation.
• Comparison and self-doubt: Comparing your progress with others who might be further along can lead to discouragement and self-doubt, impacting your motivation.
• Premature completion: Telling people about your goals can sometimes feel like achieving them, leading to a false sense of accomplishment and reduced motivation to put in the actual work.

Individual differences:

• Personality: Some people thrive on external accountability and find sharing their goals motivating, while others prefer working independently and may find it demotivating.
• Goal type: Sharing personal goals might be different than sharing professional goals. The level of personal vulnerability and potential public judgment can influence your motivation differently.
• Relationship with the listener: Sharing with supportive and encouraging individuals is more likely to have positive effects than sharing with judgmental or competitive people.

So, the answer is not a simple yes or no. Consider your personality, the type of goal, and the people you choose to share with. Weigh the potential benefits and drawbacks before deciding whether to disclose your goals.

Remember: Regardless of whether you share your goals, stay focused on your own progress, celebrate your achievements, and adjust your approach as needed. Ultimately, your internal motivation and belief in yourself are the key factors in achieving your goals.